Make Your Own Custody Decisions If Possible --
Parenting Issues and Financial Issues --
Why This Book Is Unique --
So, You Just Want to Fight! --
Icons Used in This Book --
Taking Stock of Your Situation --
Keep Your Parenting Plan Focused on Your Children --
Know That It Gets Easier Over Time --
Learn How to Negotiate --
If the Other Parent Is Absent --
If There Is Violence or Abuse in the Family --
An Introduction to Parenting Agreements --
What Parenting Agreements Cover --
Advantages of Parent-Negotiated Agreements --
Goals of a Successful Parenting Agreement --
Parenting Agreements and Custody --
Preparing to Build Your Parenting Agreement --
Organize and Review All Pertinent Documents --
Take Stock of Your Relationship With Your Children --
How to Negotiate a Parenting Agreement --
Knowing What You Need and Want --
Understanding What Gets in the Way --
Using Effective Negotiation and Problem Solving Strategies --
Breaking Through Impasses --
Knowing Where to Get Help and Support --
Building Your Parenting Agreement --
What Works in Building a Parenting Agreement --
Complete the Parenting Agreement --
Parenting Agreements and Money --
Understanding Child Support --
Understanding Alimony or Spousal Support --
Negotiating Child and Spousal Support --
Dividing Jointly Owned Property --
Making Mediation and Arbitration Work for You --
Understanding Basic Mediation Techniques.